GET YOUR COPY OF THE INTELLIGENCE SELF: 101 WAYS TO INCREASE YOUR SELF-ESTEEM BY TOBI DELLY

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate

Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.

It is our light, not our darkness that frightens us.

We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous?

Actually, who are we not to be?

You are a child of God.

Your playing small doesn’t serve the world.

There’s nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you.

We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us.

It’s not just in some of us, it’s in everyone.

And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.

As we are liberated from our own fears, our presence automatically liberates others.

{As quoted by Nelson Mandela in his inaugural speech, 1994}

A heart filled with sorrow requires no pulling down. Its esteem is automatically low. But a heart filled with joy can be said to come with a high self-esteem. What goes through our heart and mind take up the major part of determining what level our self-esteem is.

Imagine entering into a gathering filled with people of high calibre and status without Ushers and protocols at the entrance to direct you where to sit or where to stand, what do you do? Do you enter the hall and mix with the audience or do you stay back? Are people going to notice you in the gathering or not? Is there any possibility you’ll leave the place with new contact or connection?

A high self-esteem must not be confused with pride. Pride and high self-esteem are not the same, even the Bible states ‘pride goes before destruction’. Pride is when you consider yourself as the only thing tangible and all other things useless. A high self-esteem is regarding yourself as one of the best in the midst of the best. You regard other people’s potentials and you don’t diminish them or bash their self-confidence or self-esteem. You do your thing without feeling ashamed, shy and with confidence.

This of course doesn’t mean when you meet high-powered speakers like Anthony Robbins, John C. Maxwell, Barrack Obama, Brian Tracy, Fela Durotoye, Leke Alder, etc. don’t get scared when on stage too. There’s always stage fright but you can expel this as soon as it comes when you have the knowledge and experience. Since they most times they’re always speaking to audiences, it becomes part of them and their personalities. One of my favourite quote Amateurs call it genius, masters call it practice’. You can practice to become whatever you want to be and become a master at it if you want. You can literally convert your low self-esteem into a high self-esteem.

Learn more about how to increase your self-esteem for greater achievement in life by reading Tobi Delly’s new book ‘The Intelligent Self: 101 ways to increase your self-esteem’

 

See what people are saying about it:

”THE INTELLIGENT SELF: 101 Ways to Increase Your Self-esteem” is a Masterpiece to all who want to build their brand, grow their self-worthiness and become excellent in their action. This is a delightful guide full of important information for those of us who want to live an intelligent life full of fun and progress. Tobi Delly continues to inspire young people in Africa to rise up to their full potential…

PETER QUEST. Social-entrepreneur. & Life Coach.
Executive Director, Inspiration Kenya.

As a busy Soldier, I know this is a brilliant piece of work. It takes a lot of self-esteem out there, to go out and face the enemy in battle. As a poet and writer, this is a must read. The Intelligent Self will be my Go-to-guide on self-esteem for many years to come.’

SANUSI ADEYEMI BIOGEO. Trooper, Armour Corp. The Nigerian Army

‘The Intelligent Self is best described as an inspiration and self-development cleverly mashed and delivered in swallow-able bits.
It’s laced with wisdom to raise bowed heads and practical steps to straighten sagged shoulders’

DAPO OMOJOLA. Author of Mind your Mind,
www.dapoomojola.com

We are all born pure and innocent with an empty mind. We grow up being fed the dos and don’ts of life. Our sense of self-esteem is consistently being shaped, whipped or influenced by the society. Living one’s life according to how the society dictates out-rightly ruins our self-esteem. The Intelligent Self has come to fill the need for continuous self-reassurance and validation else the unconscious drift to low self-worth and terminal depression.

STELLA JEGEDE. Fabric Designer.
Creative Director, Stellar Height Creations

The Intelligent self is a compendium of brilliant, relatable ideas that can help you build a positive self-esteem.  A tantalizing page-turner.  Get ready for a paradigm shift.

OGUNBOWALE OLUGBENGA. Multiple Award Winning Entrepreneur & CEO Epower

I’ve known Tobi Delly a long time to know his words are straightforward and concise, buttressing the points without mincing words. He has done the same thing with this book. The Intelligent Self is simple yet straightforward. It delves into the knowledge of how you can increase your self-esteem, gives you 101 ways and at the end of it, there’s an action plan; a work-session to take you through self-assessment and improvement. I strongly recommend this book as a tool to the Nigerian populace.

 

PRINCE ADEPOJU ADEYEMI AFEEZ. Medical Consultant/MBBS, University of Ibadan

 

The compendium of deep thoughts in this insightful and intelligently put together by the author to help you on self-discovery on recovery for an optimum performance for self-actualization. It’s very easy to read, digest and apply.

 

TOPE AWOFISAYO, Lead Pastor, Communion Christian Centre.

 

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